Tuesday, March 07, 2006

The Suit & The Jean Queen

The Suit is what I planned to call my new guy... Note the past tense used - about a minute ago I called him to end someting that wasn't happening.
But here's a little about The Suit, The Jean Queen, what could have been and why I'm a little sad.

I planned on calling him The Suit, because he was just so serious, proper, fancy and he wore suits to work each day. And I'm the Jean Queen, layed back, giggly, and down to earth and I wear jeans to work each day :)
I loved that we were such opposites I think it made us good for each other. But we knew each other for quite a while and there was so much missing. I recently informed him of all I thought about that - he agreed and we both agreed to work on it.

Our kinky sides - it was a little scary to me that we already knew this about each other - it was good, but overwhelming. One of my last post's - Black on White should give you all a glimpse into what he was interested in and in what he got me interested in. But he wanted to move forward with this quite quickly, I wanted to build something stronger between us. We decided to move forward with both.

He's truly an alpha male in all respects. He decided where we ate, he had impecable taste, and I loved going to all these amazing restaurants; granted I usually had no idea what I was reading on the menu - but he'd show me... and I loved that. I loved having this feeling of being taken care of. We had fun together, I think I was a little too fiesty and sarcastic for him, but then again sometimes he was too serious for me.
I did something a little corny while dating him - on each date I always kept something. A cork from the bottle of wine on our first date, a matchbook from the restaurant, a playbook from a broadway show... a little part of me thought this was the man I was going to end up with and these were little things that made me smile to think I would look back on. I was proud to be with him, I couldn't wait to introduce him to my family and to meet his. I thought I found what I was looking for - a man, a real man who was successful and down to earth, respectful, trustworthy, honest, and kinky.

6 Comments:

Blogger Oswald Croll said...

Hey....so? What happened?

3/08/2006 10:33 AM  
Blogger Joey said...

Lol - Did I leave everyone hanging?! -- ooops... I didn't realize.

Well I made the phone call before writing the post... told him this isn't working for reasons that be...

Later on he im'd me... we talked things out but we're not together. He's going on vacation soon, I told him to clear his head, think things through and if he'd like to give this a second shot he knows what he has to do.

And that's about it. For now. And yes, I'm hoping he'll call me in a week or so and want to try again.

3/08/2006 11:57 AM  
Blogger Oswald Croll said...

As long as I still get a chance one day...haaaaaa.

Well, everything for a reason. Leaves you more time to write.....god I'm selfish...

3/08/2006 1:35 PM  
Blogger PhillySexGod said...

you can email me if you want joey ;)

PSG

3/08/2006 5:50 PM  
Blogger Emmanuel.K.Bensah II said...

it's good you lay down the law, Joey. It's important that you women do that to us guys, cos our tendency to take you for granted is excessively legendary.

Make him --erm--come to you. No pun intended;-))

3/10/2006 12:47 PM  
Blogger j said...

love it...

i will be linking you

check out my stuff and feel free to do the same.

3/25/2006 6:54 AM  

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